Most couples spend months planning the wedding and almost no time preparing for the marriage. This guide is the preparation I wish every Muslim couple had.
It’s built from years of counseling Muslim couples, and from the top needs of more than 100 Noor couples. It helps you clear away the myths that shape who we choose, check honestly whether you’re ready, and have the conversations most couples skip until it’s too late.
What’s inside
Myths vs. Reality: 15 common beliefs about love, personality, timing, family and religion, each with the reality and a Noor insight.
Readiness Wheel: rate 8 areas of your life on day one and again after Part 2.
18-point Personal Readiness Checklist: score bands, a “top 10 needs” sheet, the 7-of-10 rule and a growth plan.
Couples Questionnaire: 29 questions across 9 areas: marital vision, affection, communication, conflict, roles, domestic life, money, family and children, and faith. Each partner rates the other’s answers from 1 to 5.
Couples Scorecard and Courtship Agreement: see where you agree, where you don’t, and set your boundaries together.
Signs to slow down: the red flags to take seriously, and the green flags to look for.
Pocket cards to cut out: courtship boundaries, six must-ask questions, the 7-of-10 rule and a du’a for your future family.
Qur’an and Sunnah anchors throughout, with the Arabic text.
Who it’s for
Muslim singles preparing for marriage, and couples who are getting to know each other or are engaged.
Format
Instant PDF download, 35 pages, US Letter. Print it or fill it in on a tablet. If you’re using it as a couple, print two copies.
Pairs well with
The 7 Keys to Open and Healthy Communication, and Heat to Heart: Muslim Marriage Conflict Resolution Guide.
Want personal guidance?
Book a private premarital session with Karim: https://noor-scheduling.as.me/Karim
Most couples spend months planning the wedding and almost no time preparing for the marriage. This guide is the preparation I wish every Muslim couple had.
It’s built from years of counseling Muslim couples, and from the top needs of more than 100 Noor couples. It helps you clear away the myths that shape who we choose, check honestly whether you’re ready, and have the conversations most couples skip until it’s too late.
What’s inside
Myths vs. Reality: 15 common beliefs about love, personality, timing, family and religion, each with the reality and a Noor insight.
Readiness Wheel: rate 8 areas of your life on day one and again after Part 2.
18-point Personal Readiness Checklist: score bands, a “top 10 needs” sheet, the 7-of-10 rule and a growth plan.
Couples Questionnaire: 29 questions across 9 areas: marital vision, affection, communication, conflict, roles, domestic life, money, family and children, and faith. Each partner rates the other’s answers from 1 to 5.
Couples Scorecard and Courtship Agreement: see where you agree, where you don’t, and set your boundaries together.
Signs to slow down: the red flags to take seriously, and the green flags to look for.
Pocket cards to cut out: courtship boundaries, six must-ask questions, the 7-of-10 rule and a du’a for your future family.
Qur’an and Sunnah anchors throughout, with the Arabic text.
Who it’s for
Muslim singles preparing for marriage, and couples who are getting to know each other or are engaged.
Format
Instant PDF download, 35 pages, US Letter. Print it or fill it in on a tablet. If you’re using it as a couple, print two copies.
Pairs well with
The 7 Keys to Open and Healthy Communication, and Heat to Heart: Muslim Marriage Conflict Resolution Guide.
Want personal guidance?
Book a private premarital session with Karim: https://noor-scheduling.as.me/Karim
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